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最近兩天, 連續讀妳送我的 ”The Last Lecture” 到凌晨三點

真的無法把這本書放下, 因為作者真的寫的太好了


好過 YouTube 上十分鐘 video clips 太多太多了


在書裡, 作者很清楚的講到他和 Jai 的交往過程

他們是如何 fall in love

Jai 是如何決定跟他遠走高飛

在一起的生活點滴

他們愛情裡的爭吵

對於未來做的期許

想要如何教育兒女

等等, 等等的細節


看到他們倆恩愛的感情

卻事與原違的無法到天長地久

知道自己的另一半壽命將盡

心裡又有多少無奈與感慨？



這麼多的情感

卻被日曆一天一天倒數的

有情人無法終成眷屬

實在令人婉息

有點像妳我的感情一般

明明兩人是天造地合

卻因為距離的關係, 無法一起過日子

逼使兩人分離, 不能成為生命共同體


好可惜...



總之, 還是真的很喜歡這本書

裡面講的人生道理, 我還頗能接受

Randy 真的很會寫, 很風趣, 道理也寫的夠深夠 applicable

會讓我自己反省自己

以下是一些我已寫在小筆記本, 也會永遠放在我心裡的 quotes:

與妳分享:


On dreams ~ ”If you dream it, you can do it.” ~ Walt Disney

On life ~ ”We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.”

On parenting ~ ”Kids needs to know their parents love them.”

On parenting ~ ”How to give a kid self-esteem? You give them something they can’t do, they work hard until they find they can do it.”

On putting up a fight ~ ”Randy, I don’t believe in the no-win scenario.” ~ Captain Kirk

On failures ~ ”The brick walls are there for a reason. They’re not there to keep us out, but to give us a chance to see how bad we really want something.”

On treating people ~ ”People are more important than things. A car, even a pristine gem like my new convertible, was just a thing.”

On marriage ~ ”Not everything needs to be fixed.”

On comeback ~ ”Treat the disease, not the symptom.”

On complaining ~ ”Don’t whine. Jackie Robinson had on his contract to not complain even if someone spit on him. He simply worked hard to earn people’s respect.”

On luck ~” Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.” ~ Seneca

On experience ~ ”Experience is what you got when you didn’t get what you wanted.”

On thanking ~ ”Write and mail a personal thank you card.”


thank you very so much!!