I can’t help but wonder, WHY AM I ALWAYS FRIENDS WITH THOSE THAT ARE SELFISH, INCONSIDERATE AND KNOW NOTHING BUT TAKE ADVATAGE OF ME? Yet I suck when it comes to friends, cuz I never knew there was a word in the social dictionary that means you could actually cut out bad friends that are not nice to you for good.
Few months ago I finally listened to good friends’ opinion to cut off with this girl who has been taking every opportunity out of me, including jobs and boys. Not only she’s dated everyone of my guy friends, she’s even flirted a few times with guys I was going out with. Now she’s officially going out with one of my official ex who broke my heart a year ago and she was with a bf there to cheer me up. This girl is not too cheap, but she is definitely opportunitist and unbelivably selfish. July 4th wknd I skipped going to a fabulous pool party at the last minute becuz she called and asked me to go Santa Cruz with her. As I hvn’t seen her in a while, I decided to go along with her. It was a long trip on HWY 17 becuz the traffic was bumper to bumper, and all she did was talk on the phone with her bf. I finally got her to get off the fucking phone just to have her lecture me how I should put bf as top priority and why i was still single. WTF? I call that common manner to cut the phone short when you have company around, esp. I came out FOR HER. She then goes " you don’t have to come, and I can drop you off here." yes, right in the middle of nowhere. Her selfishness and immaturity were beyond my understanding. Then we sat down at dinner and she made an announcement "your ex is crazy about me now, but i told him to break up with the girl in Taiwan before this could go anywhere." No wonder he was in Asia at that time, initial plan was to go on vacation with the gf, and turned into a break-up trip, poor girl. Then I thought, he had commitment issue w/weight problem, and you dated everyone in the city, you two really make perfect couple.
"He’s rich and you are desparate, that’s how people become couple." Heard this cynical comment somewhere, funny that actually applies.
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