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Lover(愛人者)/蔚琪

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愛人者
這個原型不僅出現有浪漫的傾向,而且會對任何人展示出巨大的熱情和奉獻。
這個人可能是藝術、音樂、園藝、波斯地毯、大自然或是織景畫的愛好者。
這個關鍵是有一個無拘無束和誇大屬性的感官感覺,及對某些人或某些事的欣賞正影響著你生活和環境的組織。
雖然「愛人者」在某種程度上存在於每一個人的生活,當這一個個人的原型需要表現出有意義的作用時,它在你生活或你自尊的全部設計上會是你心理最強而有力的聯繫。
「愛人者」連繫著自尊的議題,因為這個原型是如此強烈的描繪出一個人的身體外觀景象。
即使你在你的心理有顯著的「愛人者」的原型,你可以抑制這個典型到你自尊不足處之外,特別是關於你身體的吸引力。
「愛人者」的陰暗面顯示出當這種使人著迷的熱情過分誇大其實時,就會在一個人的身體上或精神健康和自尊上有毀滅性的結果。
電影/詩/小說:待續
戲劇:莎士比亞的羅密歐與茱麗葉。
童話故事:青蛙王子和公主;美女與野獸。
宗教/神話:據Ovid的描述,巴比倫情人穿越過恆星,會犯雙倍自殺罪;結局(在希臘神話裡,牧羊人男孩和致命的情人–月亮女神Selene);Hasu-Ko(一個日本女孩對從未看過的未婚夫至死不渝的愛);弗雷亞(古代斯堪地那維亞的愛的、繁殖力的及具有淫蕩象徵的女神,她是音樂、春天、花的愛好者,也是小精靈);吉尼維爾和藍斯洛特(雖然吉尼維爾嫁給亞瑟王,但是藍斯洛特是亞瑟王最喜歡的爵士之一,他們追隨一個導致圓桌毀滅前夕的事件)。
Lover (蔚琪)
This archetype appears not only in those who are romantically inclined, but also in anyone who exhibits great passion and devotion. One can be a Lover of art, music, gardening, Persian carpets, nature, or needlepoint. The key is having a sense of unbridled and exaggerated affection and appreciation of someone or something that influences the organization of your life and environment. Although the Lover is present in everyone’s life to some degree, as a personal archetype it needs to play a significant role in the overall design of your life and your self-esteem, which is its strongest link to your psyche. The Lover is connected to issues of self-esteem because this archetype is so strongly represented by one’s physical appearance. Even if you have the Lover archetype prominently in your psyche, you may repress this pattern out of a lack of self-esteem, especially regarding your physical attractiveness.
The shadow lover manifests as an exaggerated of obsessive passion that has a destructive effect on one’s physical or mental health and self-esteem.
Films: Nicholas Cage in Moonstruck; Charles Denner in The Man Who Loved Women (Truffaut version); Ingrid Bergman and Humphrey Bogart in Casablanca; Jose Ferrer in Cyrano de Bergerac.
Drama: Romeo and Juliet by Shakespeare
Poetry: Troilus and Cressida by Chaucer
Fiction: Stealing Heaven by Marion Meade (Abelard and Heloise)
Fairy Tales: The Princess and the Frog; Beauty and the Beast.
Religion/Myth: Pyramus and Thisbe (star-crossed Babylonian lovers, described by Ovid, who commit double suicide); Endymion (in Greek myth a shepherd boy and mortal lover of the moon goddess Selene); Hasu-Ko (a Japanese girl who died of love for her betrothed, whom she had never seen); Freya (Norse goddess of love and fertility and symbol of sensuality, lover of music, spring, flowers, and elves); Guinevere and Lancelot (although Guinevere was married to King Arthur and Lancelot was one of his favorite knights, they pursued an affair that led to the eventual undoing of the Round Table).

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