You Fall in Love Whenever You See a Love Movie
I’d been eating, lying and watching Sex and the City alone in last Saturday morning. Well, for this kind of TV episodes it’s exceptionally tasty for women to watch on their own. Even it’s not you who is to fall in love with some sexy and gorgeous men in it, you feel there’s a part of you. Then you feel you did fall in love with whoever you met either before or in the future. It touches your heart anyway.
Love at First Sight
Sex and the City, the latter embed thousands of opportunities for searching which could be a long long journey to finally get the one you want. But it also could be a short one. When I bump into this in mind, I wonder when, where and how people would find the one by loving at first sight. And, what do you mean by true love? Old guys from movie might always murmur, “When I saw her coming into the bar right after pushing that door, I knew it was she…bla bla bla.” Something, like that! Amazing yet you just have to believe it sometimes. I believe that sort of thing is only possible at some acute moments, which means happening in the right place, right time, right mood, and right people. Then passion or impulse could turn into love, just by that genuine moment. The so called, Love at first sight.
Gambling with Beautiful Men and Women
Of course the above is just a rare case for most of the people who keep searching. Sometimes you it is undeniable that human are superficial. We are often attracted by beautiful and bright men and women, as which I see it human nature. We hunt for beauty, love anything that is beautiful. And sometimes there’re just too many beauties in the city. Cosmetics, clothes and accessories make the crowds an undistinguishable variation. Men and women tend to follow a certain trend that is agreed and recognized. Then the problem is, how do you make up your own style among the fixed standard of beauty? If love is to be found in that way, it’s sympathetic. Though we couldn’t eliminate the possibility that one can find the other half, he/she has to be lucky enough. Love in the city is a gambling in a limited period of time. Trials and error are the inevitable outcomes along the way of searching.
Sex In and Outside Love
Sex, is one of the many important concerns for one to run a love relationship. I see both women and men have that kind of need, except that it’s usually men to take the initiative. Anyway, my concern is, when are love and sex separable, and when inseparable. I believe some are purely a sex fan, I mean sex is just a need, a satisfying passionate “love”, a seductive attraction. For men of that kind, they love women just before sex, and lose interest after enjoying the sex moment. As for women of that kind, they treat sex as both a satisfaction and a cure of loneliness, like drugs. I once had a friend, he loved having sex with girls from bars, yet had a stable and constant girlfriend. Girls from bars for him are just vivid and real masturbating tools, like more complete version of sex tools, as for some self-conscious men, masturbating alone could not bring them orgasm.
Love Outweights Sex
Back to the love part, sex is a catalyst for love to sublime, making love and passion deeper and deeper. Yet it also has limit, some love to challenge its limit by SM, or peculiar sex intercourse forms like 3-play, cocking, even animal-play…etc. For those who like to challenge the limit of sex physically, I believe they’re never in love. On the contrary, people would feel heart-trembling joy while love and sex both present. But when basis of love is not firm, or confident enough, sex is not capable and not enough to sustain a love relationship. After all, human hearts are with emotions and feelings, are fragile and lonely as well. We need sex and happiness, yet the more is that we need someone to love, someone who can occupy our lonely part of heart chamber. It’s easy to find a lover, but hard to find the ultimate one who we wholeheartedly recognize. There are thousands of variations of love, yet there are extremely few “100%”.
What About Mine
I couldn’t think of these things over and over, feeling a bit bitter and frustrated. Maybe a little touch can help. I need a touch that is capable to reach my soul.
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