『我想用心是很重要的...』
這是我的專屬「除蟲大隊」（Debug Tech Team?...：P）另外一名大將，也是我「師父」沒格小姐一天轉寄給我的信，她這樣勉勵我...
『如果你很愛很愛一個人，可是有時候難免會受你所愛的人的氣，
你可能會很氣很氣，但是不論如何氣，不要去爭輸贏、爭面子，
要記得，不論如何，自己都不要做一個後悔的人，寧可讓一步。
如果你能夠原諒她，那麼就原諒她，那怕自己情感也很受傷。
如果你不能原諒她，那麼就同情她，因為她可能哪裡不舒服。
如果你不能同情她，那麼就祝福她，希望她的低潮快快過去。
如果你不能祝福她，那麼就幫助她，讓她了解你總是關心她。
如果你不能幫助她，那麼就走開吧，時間會讓這不愉快過去。
只因為你內心深處明白，她是一個值得你愛的人。
你並沒有很大的損失，只是讓了小小的一步，卻能夠維繫真情。』
如果你很愛很愛一個人的話...
我一直篤信自己發明的一句話，「人在脆弱的時候都是很俗氣的...」，包括我昨天在整理中學時代的舊錄音帶時，想起一首Europe的歌...
Days filled with joy and days filled with sorrow
I don't know just what to do
Am I happy today am I lonely tomorrow
Everything depends on you
(And) I've been waiting for the angels to knock on my door
I've been hoping but everything could be like before
Open your heart and tell me what's wrong
Why can't you talk like you used to do before
I don't know if I'm weak I don't know if I'm strong
Hey girl I can't cope anymore
Maybe the sun will continue to shine
Maybe the rain will continue to fall
Maybe you want to leave me behind
Maybe you'll change and give me a call
Open your heart-let me hear you
Make up your mind-I want to hear you call
Open your heart-want to come near you
Make up your mind-oh girl before I fall (we lose it all)
Maybe that time has it's own way of healing
Maybe it dries the tears in your eyes
But never change the way that I'm feeling
Only you can answer my cries
Yeah right, 〈Open Your Heart〉！！
十年前我只知道為賦新辭強說愁地跟著沙啞的雙卡收錄音機唱，現在我才知道，除了「用心」，還要「開心」... 沒有「用心」，我不會打破該死的主觀去站在別人的鞋子裡想半天；沒有「開心」，我也不會放下我爭強好勝的心，在深夜播出電話麻煩我所信任的良師益友為我傳道解惑...
當然，其實我心裡想的，是希望『她』也能聽到所有於我如驚醒夢中人的、那些我曾經曾經深深封鎖自己，聽不懂的說話...
『Just let her leave you with your kisses...』
『Hey man, you're just the right man in the fucking wrong place...』
『You don't really have to own her if you really used to love her...』
Angus, Eric, Mag, Chowder, Elin... the one "not been so preferred"..., Serena...my "ex-wife"...
Did I thank you? No?
I will!
originally posted: 2000-08-23 06:45:25
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