
Recently I've been asked a question by one of my girl friends, "Would it be possible that you love two guys at a time?" shared love, shared spirit, shared body, so to speak, of course she is the shared entity.
I got back to her without even thinking about it, "of course!!"
Attraction occurs every passing minute, some people constantly flirt around to reinforce his/her self-assurance. Some people have caught the next boat when they're still riding on the first one. Others think life just needs some excitement to spice it up, however in the face of ethical issue, they have to deal with a secret affair in an undecent manner. For me? I guess this is no random case. Casual date is never my style, no attraction, no date. I could date couple guys at the same time, but once i'm emotionally involved in one of them, that's probably gonna be my destiny.
However, i have no judgment on her going out with two guys and engaging in intamacy with both. One who recently leveled with her was her previous crush however she didn't have the nerve to take an action back year ago. It turned out that this one guy has been attracted to her for a year while he was going out with his ex for about 2 years at that point of time.
What an amazing change on her. When she was still in a monogamous relationship, all that i saw was that she constantly cried for him, a conflicted, tortured soul. Now I see her walking out of the emotional prison, and having a good time with the new life excitement.
I think this fact drives me nuts, how could i have ended up having no date on weekends, and the only company with me is this 14" monitor. sigh........
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