tnsl99 (3:12:04 PM): for me..i know how it's like to be cared for and to care for someone..that's why i've never been afraid of relationships
Alice (3:12:04 PM): except for you
tnsl99 (3:12:15 PM): but a good friend is different from a partner
Alice (3:12:19 PM): yeah....
Alice (3:12:37 PM): is ur day busy?
tnsl99 (3:12:38 PM): anyway..very happy for u
tnsl99 (3:12:42 PM): just hanging out at home
Alice (3:12:50 PM): oh i found out how much $ he is making
tnsl99 (3:12:52 PM): so hot outside
tnsl99 (3:12:53 PM): how much?
Alice (3:12:54 PM): well i took a guess
tnsl99 (3:12:59 PM): 140K
Alice (3:13:02 PM): wow
Alice (3:13:04 PM): u are good
tnsl99 (3:13:07 PM): right?
Alice (3:13:19 PM): he's now contracting for outside consulting firm
Alice (3:13:32 PM): and he asked for $150/hour, and i asked him how he came up that $
Alice (3:13:37 PM): he said doubled his salary
Alice (3:13:44 PM): so $75*40*4*12
Alice (3:13:47 PM): around 144k
tnsl99 (3:13:59 PM): so he used to make $144K
Alice (3:14:00 PM): plus 5 to 10 hours of consulting work a week
tnsl99 (3:14:03 PM): now he's making twice?
tnsl99 (3:14:06 PM): oh
Alice (3:14:07 PM): nono
Alice (3:14:12 PM): $144k normal job
tnsl99 (3:14:16 PM): ok ok
Alice (3:14:17 PM): plus part time consulting
tnsl99 (3:14:17 PM): got it
tnsl99 (3:14:22 PM): wow..
Alice (3:14:30 PM): but he doesnt' like flashy things
tnsl99 (3:14:31 PM): financially u guys have no problems then
tnsl99 (3:14:48 PM): that's good
Alice (3:14:55 PM): and so far i've not asked him to do anything for me, and i always came over to his place and brought him stuff
tnsl99 (3:15:01 PM): should find a guy who's making good money so that if u need to stay home..u can afford to
Alice (3:15:01 PM): so he likes that about me
Alice (3:15:06 PM): haha
Alice (3:15:07 PM): i wish
Alice (3:15:08 PM): hahaha
tnsl99 (3:15:15 PM): when u have kids someday
Alice (3:15:18 PM): wow...
Alice (3:15:21 PM): u are moving too fast
Alice (3:15:22 PM): haha
tnsl99 (3:15:24 PM): nah
Alice (3:15:25 PM):
tnsl99 (3:15:37 PM): so he's started working 2 jobs now?
Alice (3:15:39 PM): but it sure feels good to talk about someone u really like
Alice (3:15:43 PM): yeah he is
Alice (3:15:49 PM): he's not working on friday anymore
Alice (3:15:53 PM): but to do his parttime work
tnsl99 (3:15:54 PM): what abt child support?
Alice (3:15:59 PM): i think half half
tnsl99 (3:16:00 PM): or he doens't need to pay
Alice (3:16:00 PM): not sure
Alice (3:16:05 PM): he sure does
Alice (3:16:09 PM): he has half of the custody
Alice (3:16:14 PM): and he loves Cal very much
Alice (3:16:20 PM): it's his son, girl!!!!
tnsl99 (3:16:38 PM): of coz
Alice (3:16:52 PM): he was going to move to a bigger place, but becuz of this 2nd job taking off now, he decided to stay
Alice (3:17:06 PM): i think after he files the paper, he should/might look at buying a property
tnsl99 (3:17:10 PM): oh..his 2nd job might become fulltime someday?
Alice (3:17:17 PM): um..could be...
tnsl99 (3:17:20 PM): of coz..he can afford to buy with that kind of money
Alice (3:17:36 PM): but he wants to make the money from E2open going IPO next yr
tnsl99 (3:17:43 PM): yes of coz
tnsl99 (3:17:48 PM): could be an instant millionaire
Alice (3:17:52 PM): his company promised not to dilute the shares
Alice (3:17:58 PM): i think he wants that
Alice (3:18:09 PM): his ex-wife is very aggressive and competitive
Alice (3:18:14 PM): andi think he doestn' want to be anything less
tnsl99 (3:18:22 PM): his wife makes more money?
Alice (3:18:28 PM): actually sorta yes
tnsl99 (3:18:32 PM): what does she do?
Alice (3:18:41 PM): actually he's professor at standford
Alice (3:18:48 PM): prolly also does consulting
tnsl99 (3:19:00 PM): wow..together they make tons of money
tnsl99 (3:19:02 PM): that's crazy
Alice (3:19:07 PM): but she's with someone millionaire
tnsl99 (3:19:27 PM): still..a couple making $300K a yr can easily become millionaires with careful investing and planning
Alice (3:19:34 PM): definitely
Alice (3:19:36 PM): that's so crazy
Alice (3:19:40 PM): different from my world
Alice (3:19:51 PM): i'm glad he appreciates the difference
Alice (3:20:03 PM): in the bay area pple are so competitive in the dating market
tnsl99 (3:20:08 PM): yeah
Alice (3:20:36 PM): guys and girls are constantly looking and comparing
Alice (3:20:38 PM): i hate that
tnsl99 (3:20:45 PM): if i were u..i;d hold on to dave
tnsl99 (3:20:45 PM): hahaha
tnsl99 (3:20:48 PM): seriously
Alice (3:20:51 PM): hold on?
Alice (3:20:53 PM): hold back?
tnsl99 (3:21:05 PM): hold on...put in more effort to make things work
Alice (3:21:08 PM): yes
Alice (3:21:10 PM): i am doing so
Alice (3:21:18 PM): i've been putting more and more thought about it
Alice (3:21:21 PM): he's a great guy
Alice (3:21:29 PM): but we still need to date for a while
tnsl99 (3:21:32 PM): yes
Alice (3:21:34 PM): to find out if it's really working out
Alice (3:21:49 PM): and i dunt want any drama in this
Alice (3:21:59 PM): i really want just stability
tnsl99 (3:22:03 PM): where will the drama come from?
Alice (3:22:05 PM): and good communication
tnsl99 (3:22:10 PM): yes
Alice (3:22:11 PM): yeah, myself maybe
Alice (3:22:11 PM): haha
Alice (3:22:27 PM): i become clinging in relationship
tnsl99 (3:22:33 PM): it's normal
Alice (3:22:42 PM): yeah, i think we need to chill
Alice (3:22:50 PM): and try not to complicate things
Alice (3:22:55 PM): i remind myself everyday
tnsl99 (3:23:02 PM): just spend some time with me occasionally
Alice (3:23:06 PM): just do what's best
tnsl99 (3:23:09 PM): i think i need to do that too..hang out wiht girls
Alice (3:23:10 PM): with best effort
Alice (3:23:16 PM): heehee
Alice (3:23:18 PM): sure thing!
Alice (3:23:23 PM): where robert lives?
tnsl99 (3:23:30 PM): wow..dave makes more than u in his part time job
tnsl99 (3:23:31 PM): hahaha
Alice (3:23:33 PM): u know what? after ur folks leave u'll be alone again
tnsl99 (3:23:34 PM): that;s crazy
Alice (3:23:39 PM): perhaps u'll need company all the time
tnsl99 (3:23:40 PM): yeah..which is good for us
Alice (3:23:46 PM): what.........
Alice (3:23:49 PM): i know....
Alice (3:23:56 PM): he's a very smart person
Alice (3:24:02 PM): but he's friendly
Alice (3:24:25 PM): as soon as i have my house, which is this wknd
Alice (3:24:35 PM): dave will come a lot
Alice (3:24:36 PM): i hope
Alice (3:24:36 PM): haha
tnsl99 (3:24:42 PM): of coz he will
Alice (3:24:43 PM): maybe not a lot, since he's got a kid and 2nd job
tnsl99 (3:24:56 PM): how do pple manage 2 jobs??
tnsl99 (3:24:59 PM): i can't do it
Alice (3:25:00 PM): he said he normally doesn't see someone everynite
Alice (3:25:09 PM): well....if he doesn't work on friday
Alice (3:25:15 PM): and put in extra hour after work
Alice (3:25:22 PM): or cut back on working full time
tnsl99 (3:25:24 PM): hmm..
Alice (3:25:28 PM): his boss seems to work him too hard
tnsl99 (3:25:30 PM): so hardworking
Alice (3:25:42 PM): yeah, i need to understand that
Alice (3:25:49 PM): there are pple making tons of money by working hard
Alice (3:25:55 PM): i shuold appreciate that
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