「每日一道」一生中，來來去去很多人，卻只有極少數可以成爲朋友，大多數都是觀衆。觀衆只是一個旁觀者，笑看你起落沉浮，朋友卻是你人生的參與者，該鼓勵還是該表揚，拿捏得剛剛好。膚淺的人，要的是觀衆；深沉的人，要的是知己。朋友不是天天見面，吃喝玩樂、相互吹捧；而是懂你，在精神上、靈魂上支持你、鼓勵你、幫助你，在你有所不足時，指正你，在你失落時，安慰你。朋友，需要的不是數量，而是質量。你與什麼樣的人相交，你就容易變成什麼樣的人，所以，選擇朋友時一定要慎重。人活着，一份自然再加一份真誠。人要善良，但更要有尺度，還要辨得清是非。你要明白，不是所有的人都能成爲朋友，也不是所有的人都值得你付出真心或是發善心。做人不要斤斤計較，但要有原則。他人有過，不究；於人有恩，不念。來來往往皆是過客，相伴同行才是朋友。一生中的朋友有很多，而真正的朋友卻沒有幾個。真正的朋友會有一份篤定不移的信任。人要低頭做事，更要睜眼看人，擇真善人而交，擇真君子而處。關心，不需要甜言蜜語，真誠就好；友誼，不需要朝朝暮暮，記得就好；問候，不需要語句優美，真心就好；愛護，不需要刻意表現，溫暖就好。朋友，淡淡交，慢慢處，才能長久；感情，淺淺嘗，細細品，才有回味。朋友如茶，需品；相交如水，需淡。一份好的緣分，是隨緣；一份好的感情，是隨性。人生中有朋友是幸福，有知己是難得，有知心是難求難得。真心見真情，真情見真人！
My mom's daily one so true about "friendship"
I think no one knew if I never told, when I studied in my college after I transferred to CT. I assigned as Mary Kay beauty consultant along side with my modeling. It reminded me of being door to door to sell at age 15. I knew those time in my homeland, I am surely acting different from other girls in my classroom. Especially I could talk to anyone visited my city speaking in English. All of my contacts filled up with people I met and how I met. It could be a bus stop or a train ride even at the airport terminal. In American way people called it as "social butterfly" somehow in my homeland if you want to be one, you need to be good at "drinking" That is not something I like or good at either. That is why I do not like to "drink!" I could not pull a glass of wine to feel enjoyment. Even it seems science tried to prove wine is good for your heart with small amount. When we aging our friends are now numbers, because we may not live closer or work closer or even see each other often.
I often told my mom that "any strangers walking on the street could be your family!" That theory totally break down after COVID as it is case by case. I think all the people I have met that only my mom knew me every well as she gave me birth and knew all of my Pro and Con. Now I am creating my new circle of friends to grow old together for better or worst. I expanded my extended family enlarge as even I called them respectfully like we all adopted into a big family. Some are with me for 5 years as my strong support system and others may just join us. Time will tell when we keep moving forward to build all the great memories together.
Hopefully I will have a reunion like American family did annually in the future. It would be interested in seeing if we are all getting along or fighting like dogs and cats. Wish you have great family and friends you can rely on. Enjoy a new week ahead.
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