The year 2005 has just slipped halfway but it’s a big matter of year to me.
Dwelling in this fantastic cyberworld has too much sweet and bitter memories. However, eventually, I’m still glad to meet new netpals and then become my life-supporting friends even though merely one or two of them.
SO under urban circumstance, along with a great speed of INTERNET, we’re no longer lonely so that FAST LOVE is always right here at hand. In a way, Fast love is just like fast food. Eating too much causes lots of fat and sequelae. Are we just too hungry for love ?
Thus, never really thought about healthy or not ? On the other side, mostly, both films and music has fully affect our inner mind and gradually brainwash us to believe a dreamy true love meant to be some kind of unforgettable incident or matter.
By contrast, quite a few people has commenced to focus on job careers. Then nowadays job status can be so stressed out to jam-pack the lives. Owing to material surviving, there’s no doubts that we all did lots of comprises on what we need for mental part. SO is it easy to get balanced ? Well,what I think is to go back to basis of heart and also learning how to strongly say ”NO” to a variety of selective lures and surrounding temptations. Perhaps ”Simplicity” is the way it is for us.
Well, I mean that life always goes by contraries. Besides, people are changing by finding a balance. For those what I encountered would be divided into the following steps and sections.
(1) 228 Parkers : More like youngster’s venues. Mostly for for one to one talk and one night stand.
(2) Sauna Goers : Only for physical needs.
(3) Netpals : Mostly for friendships. But for fast fun and unrealistic
to accept all kinds of possibilities.
(4) Club Players : Always single and available. Socializing is the priority for fun.
(5) Non-committed Guys : No commitment. Too much burden ! That can be any kinds of relation but always there’s distance from love.
(6) Scared Guys : Only for friendships. Stay back and disappear from any kinds of further actions.
(7) Complainers : The whole environment is the most affective to us.
(8) Extremists : Either Sex or Love.The belief is one absolute way !
(9) So-called Mature guys : Opend-minded to accept all the facts. Always say I’m waiting or everyone is looking for ?
(10) ????????
SO, no Step(10)? Well, I really wish I could know at present.
When it comes straight into you, you have to make a choice to take someone fly through all stages or be taken. Because life is just so cool from different point of view.
No matters where we are, the best thing is communication, isn’t it!
A big thank to my great friend Jaimen for this info provided !
P = parents, A= Adults, K= Kids
P --> P ( tough and straight forward but might be lots of big fights )
A --> A ( smooth and stable atmosphere, should be a long way down )
K --> K ( games, no responsibilities, and lots of fun )
P --> K ( giving orders, disciplines but a bit unstable )
2005 似乎對我流年不利 變化太多 讓我有點害怕~~!
不過 我真的很感激Hannah and Nick 適合給我建議指引方向 :)
工作上,在某個角度看破後,若是別人的局,就讓她們好好發揮吧.
簡單一句,就是重頭到尾,我一點都不適合那樣的組織 !
(Hannah said)
行到水窮處 坐看雲起時
這是很難的人生境界
卻是紅塵俗世間好壞交替的必然轉折
如果兩人之間的的心靈不能契合
彼此間的了解,關懷,信賴無法擊退四周的黑暗
什麼樣的神妙可貴可讓你們的世界因此而爍亮起來
相處的那段日子貴在相知
緣分隨時間而來也隨歲月而去
過程中的你唯一不損失的便要~長大
其實,我們並不很清楚對方,只是愛那份愛的感覺就把自己深深陷在其中
有一天突然一驚,才發覺自己的愛是那樣的空泛虛華,免不了心中傷痛,所有的付出都如鏡花水月,追悔不及
不知道該怨誰,只有小心護持這自己的傷口,等待他慢慢痊癒
就在這等待中,我們長大
這段認識你的日子裡
你長大懂事許多
但人,畢竟是認知越多受限越多,因此跳出自己習慣的環境
便又要有很多新體驗,心卻也因此更加成熟!
(Nick said)
Dear Elfy
I am so sorry really to hear this.
Although i have always told you that you would be
happier with a girlfriend instead of boyfriend.
I remember before you told me of some ’problems’ he
has been having. Could this be related to the
difficulties you face now?
No matter what - HH and i are your friends and your
family loves you so spend some time with them to cheer
yourself up. Sometimes the best way to forget really
is to do something else right? Give yourslef time.
Without that you never really give a chance for
’saving the best for last’.
If you cant then i really strongly encourage you to
think of your future and ask yourself -
At first you wanted a girlfriend but when that was too
difficult you found a boyfriend. So - are you really
gay? Are you straight? Are you Bi?” Actually for me i
dont beleive anyone is any of these. I beleive people
make their own fate and can be whichever one they try
to be. So many years of trying boyfriends and now you feel
alone and no true deep friends with them.
I love you no matter what.
Hope you can find happiness no matter what.
You are a good person, dont forget, no matter what
happens and how sad you feel then you can still say
”OK, at least i know i am a good guy, so i can still
find hope and find happiness”.
Take care elfy.
Little Nicky
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