與高人凱迪傾談後,
歸納出以下十個要點:
1.儲蓄10盞燈-先儲6盞,後儲4盞!
2.protect myself
3.probation
4.observation
5.indicator--2 feelings:from mosquito and crab!
6.be independent
7.be rational
8.stay true
9.be closed & be open properly
10.love myself more
果然係高人,循循善誘下,清晰好多,
當中她用了不少micro skills:
1) confrontation
2) reflection of content
3) reflection of feeling
4) active listening
5) encouragement
6) self-disclosure
7) appreciation
8) suggestion
9) use of experience
10) ......
oooo
她用過的skills實在有太多了!
如果linda tape了這段長達數十分鐘的對話,再在堂上播出,
同學仔的記性與答問題的速度一定會增加及加快十倍或以上!
哈哈哈.......
康樂琪,謝謝你呀!!!!!!!!
我現在一隻腳跛了,另一隻就碎骨,
唯有靠你送給我的義肢,記得保證我十年任何陳舊損壞包換呀!
p.s.
B女其實想講:
"Hi!My name is MiniPat.
I am writing a love letter to my lover Heidi!"
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