誠懇 – 10 首友情歌曲 - Muzikland 我的音樂天地

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誠懇 – 10 首友情歌曲

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生老病死﹐那是人生中難免的一些過程﹐最近因著子貓物語的一篇貼文﹐讓我有點複雜的感覺。內容是關於一位網友﹐經歷病痛多年﹐因抵受不了痛苦﹐終於在其部落格中寫下遺言告別﹐結束了自己的生命﹐而且他是早有計劃﹐只是因事延遲了而已。

筆者也曾有一位好友自殺過世﹐那是多年前的事﹐若一直以為人是老死的話﹐那麼年輕的朋友會去世﹐在我來說﹐他是首位。當時他發生了些問題﹐在信心頓失的情況下﹐連工作也受影響﹐我是花了點時間陪他﹑鼓勵他﹐不過經過了一段日子﹐並沒有甚麼結果﹐之後他曾打電話給我﹐關心我轉工的問題﹐不過只談了幾分鐘就結束了我們的對話﹐後來在某個星期日的早上﹐我還想著要不要去探望他﹐可是當晚我跟一班跟他也認識的朋友﹐正興高采烈吃晚飯之際﹐我收到他弟弟的電話﹐說他早上跳樓去世了。席間﹐所有人都很錯愕﹐在四週一片嘈吵的環境下﹐我們這一桌是死寂﹐有些最後還是忍不住痛哭起來。

我對生與死﹐其實並不在乎﹐人不就是從出生開始﹐就等待那天嗎﹖只是這一條路﹐人人不同﹐各自有精采處﹐並不一樣。我聽到消息後﹐倒是很鎮定﹐還安慰席間的朋友們﹐只是本來第二天要到新公司上班的﹐我申請延期了3天﹐稍為處理一下自己的情緒。倒是一個多月後﹐友人的一切事都辦完了﹐我才感到失去一個好朋友的失落。幾年後﹐另外幾個朋友聊天﹐其中一個是社工﹐故此提出了一些假設性的問題來討論﹐假如你的朋友跟你說要自殺﹐你會怎麼辦﹖我想了一想﹐那其實真是一個人生交叉點﹐我的思緒就立時回到友人的狀況中。我的回答是﹕若不論宗教上的自殺立場﹐我想我會尊重他的決定﹐只是我會告訴他﹐我對他是多麼的不捨。當然﹐沒有人會捨得親人或友好的離去﹐可是若他有解不開的死結﹐就算有多親的人﹐誰又會陪伴他渡過漫漫長夜的孤獨﹐或面對無望的迷惘﹖對方的感受﹐我們很難會感受到的。多年後﹐我的想法可能還是一樣﹐只是人年紀大了﹐面對更多的生老病死﹐那種無奈卻又可能讓我不會如此直接回答。

多年後﹐我還很記得這位朋友﹐因為我也曾自問﹐怎麼是他呢﹖因為他偏偏是我同輩中死去的第一人﹐所以我根本不可能把他忘記。講起友誼﹐總覺還是以前比較簡單﹐現今呢﹐男女之間會造成誤會﹐若是同性﹐機會也均等﹐所以最安全的﹐莫不是結婚了﹐讓你的另一半身兼摯友。我常說﹕人年長了﹐經歷自然會更多﹐認識的人也更多﹐然而對人的認識﹐就越來越透徹。活了那麼多年﹐認識了那麼多人﹐有時也不免有許多 Common Friend 出現﹐不過跟我要好的朋友都清楚﹐我對朋友會很挑的﹐我常笑說﹕我不“濫交”的啊~ 那個“交”當然是指交朋友啦﹐故此我認識的人很多﹐但不盡是朋友的﹐尤其那些在我背後插過一刀﹐在我危難時加了一腳的﹐一定不是呢。

曾有朋友問我﹐你覺得某某是你朋友嗎﹖我笑答﹕我感覺不到呢﹐若不是某某某﹐我根本不會跟某某碰面呢﹐有時大家相會﹐我只是給你或某某某面子而已﹐我跟某某只算是“相識的人”吧。因為當細心把事情併湊起來時﹐某某實在太多謊話了﹐最可憐還真是以為用兩分信心﹐加三錢肉緊﹐稍添一點誠懇的眼神﹐就以為謊話連天都會令人相信﹐然而在這些無關重要的小事上那人也要說謊﹐也可見那人的為人會是怎樣的了。我是最討厭人家用最低能的謊話騙我﹐因為這使我感到自己比低能要更超低能。可惜﹐這種人在現今的社會中到處都有﹐那管是生活上或工作上﹐說實在﹐被騙到的會被騙﹐不會被騙的也不屑揭他底牌吧﹐所以這種人的謊話還是會成功的﹐最主要這些人一般都只是找個理由作解釋﹐也不會管那個解釋是否合理的﹐只需抱著強詞奪理就可以了。所以這種謊話﹐還是請你不要送進我的耳朵去﹐我寧願你不說還好﹐當我認清對方的真面目之後﹐我這些人的熱情也會減退﹐這人也不會再是我朋友的了。

猶幸﹐在不同階段﹐我身邊也曾有好友出現過﹐尤其在困難或需要幫助時﹐都會真心的出力﹐這些絕不是單單的“飲食男女”。只是經歷上﹐總會覺得好友們就像在人生路上向自己迎面而來的人﹐有些只跟你擦肩而過﹐有些或許會停下腳步﹐跟你聊一會兒天﹐更好的或許會陪你走一程﹐這大概就是“人蔘”(人生) 吧。有那麼多的感概﹐乃是因為一篇貼文﹑一些過程經歷﹐一些之前發生的事﹑還有那天把CD轉成MP3之際﹐突然重溫了鍾鎮濤的“誠懇”﹐也記起了一些過往講及友情﹐而又在我人生中留下痕跡的歌曲。是的~ 10首有關友情的歌曲。對了~ 這兩天快要到我好友的生忌了。

誠懇 - 鍾鎮濤﹕原收錄於“聽濤”(1987?Polydor)專輯中。

曲﹕鍾鎮濤 / 林敏怡

詞﹕林敏驄

沒有碰上過　許多的挫折

從心裡說　亦算是幸運

今天我再漫漫而行

欣賞看看週遭氣氛

存在原是要揮著熱能

這一分親切感

存在迎著你行近

常伴著你　是我真摰的心

全因這誠懇可跟你共接近

冰冷全溶化了換上了你我開心

全因這誠懇今天我共你能

成真良朋無限幹勁

帶著熱誠由我的心中滲

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千個太陽 - 葉德嫻 / 陳潔靈 / 散芬芳 ﹕原收錄於“千個太陽”專輯中﹐改編自電影Fame 的插曲“I Sing The Body Electric”(1980/RSO)。

曲﹕M. Gore / D.Pitchford　

詞﹕林振強

(葉) My Friend 今天你如何難得一起齊高歌這歌

從不懂解釋我為何在你友愛內尋到火

年頭匆匆的飄過甜苦都許多

風波雖各自去闖而兩心未分過

甚慶幸又再逢就算離開過

(陳) 琴聲跟心聲同行彈出一首如火的愛歌

原因心中一個良朋共我再見面和我歌

年頭匆匆的飄過甜苦都許多

風波雖各自去闖而兩心未分過

伴我行是友誼是太陽千個

(合) 真開心可跟你對望內心閃出光

若然開心哭了請你原諒

明天不管將會如何晴天陰天仍高歌這歌

從不懂解釋我為何在你友愛內尋到火

(葉) 年頭匆匆的飄過甜苦都許多

(陳) 風波雖各自去闖而兩心未分過

(合) 伴我行是友誼熱我心是你一個

無人可吹得熄火太陽千個

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友誼之光 - Maria Cordero﹕原收錄於“監獄風雲”(1987/銀星) EP中﹐原曲為紫薇的“綠島小夜曲” (1954/萬國)。

曲﹕周藍萍

詞﹕南燕

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=boJRGpEn6r4

人生於世上有幾個知己

多少友誼能長存

今日別離共你雙雙兩握手

友誼常在你我心裡

今天且有暫別他朝也定能聚首

縱使不能會面始終也是朋友

說有萬里山隔阻兩地遙

不須見面心中也知曉

友誼改不了

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友情歲月 - 黃耀明﹕原收錄於“人山人海”(1997/正東) 專輯中﹔原唱為鄭伊健﹐收錄於“古惑仔1之人在江湖”(1996/BMG) OST 中。

曲﹕陳光榮

詞﹕劉卓輝

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=07NW4GwNbNw

消失的光陰散在風裏彷彿想不起再面對

流浪日子你在伴隨有緣再聚

天真的聲音已在減退彼此為著目標相距

凝望夜空往日是誰領會心中疲累

來忘掉錯對來懷念過去

曾共渡患難日子總有樂趣

不相信會絕望不感覺到躊躇

在美夢裏競爭每日拚命進取

奔波的風雨裏不羈的醒與醉

所有故事像已發生飄泊歲月裏

風吹過已靜下將心意再還誰

讓眼淚已帶走夜憔悴

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友愛長存 - 林子祥﹕原收錄於“祈望”(1992/Wea) 專輯中﹔改編自 Jose Carreras, Sarah Brightman 的 Amigos Para Siempre (Friends For Life) (1992/ Really Useful)。

曲﹕AndrewLloyd Webber

詞﹕潘偉源

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s2P0wILKT7g

心曾歷百般滄桑變遷曾歷百般的起跌

想起許多事想越許多人甜和酸

心猶幸有心風中並肩猶幸有心的感覺

湧起許多夢湧起許多情和明天

一分一刻一天一生消失似煙

一悲一歡一一與你日夕懷念

一絲一些一一銘記日月圓缺

但舊夢永不改變

雙惜雙知雙思雙憶將心永牽

雙關雙依雙雙與你共歷磨煉

雙牽雙親雙雙似愛覓夢和暖

友愛永遠都不變

不枯不衰不休不息千心永遷

不驚不憂風風雨雨共渡磨煉

不分不捨深深切切用熱和愛

共與你以心相見情永存無限遠

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You'veGot A Friend - James Taylor﹕原收錄於“Mud Slide Slim And The Blue Horizon”(1971/Warner) 專輯中﹐原唱為 Carole King (1971/Ode)。

(CaroleKing)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9SxToTUoWGM

Whenyou're down and troubled

And youneed some loving care

Andnothing, nothing is going right

Closeyour eyes and think of me

And soonI will be there

Tobrighten up even your darkest night

You justcall out my name

And youknow wherever I am

I'llcome running to see you again

Winter,spring, summer or fall

All youhave to do is call

And I’llbe there, yeah, yeah, yeah.

You've gota friend

If thesky above you

Growsdark and full of clouds

And thatold north wind begins to blow

Keepyour head together

And callmy name out loud

Soonyou'll hear me knocking at your door

You justcall out my name

And youknow wherever I am

I'll comerunning to see you

Winter,spring, summer or fall

All youhave to do is call

And I’llbe there, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Ain't itgood to know that you've got a friend

Whenpeople can be so cold

They'llhurt you, and desert you

And takeyour soul if you let them

Oh, butdon't you let them

You justcall out my name

And youknow wherever I am

I'llcome running to see you again

Winter,spring, summer or fall

All youhave to do is call

And I'llbe there

You'vegot a friend

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FriendsWill Be Friends - Queen﹕原收錄於“A Kind Of Magic”(1986/EMI) 專輯中。

(Deacon / Mercury)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DAQ4sJZ5IsU

Anotherred letter day,

So thepound has dropped and the children are creating,

Theother half ran away,

Takingall the cash and leaving you with the lumber,

Got apain in the chest,

Doctorson strike what you need is a rest

It's noteasy love, but you've got friends you can trust,

Friendswill be friends,

Whenyou're in need of love they give you care and attention,

Friendswill be friends,

Whenyou're through with life and all hope is lost,

Hold outyour hand cos friends will be friends right till the end

Now it'sa beautiful day,

Thepostman delivered a letter from your lover,

Only aphone call away,

Youtried to track him down but somebody stole his number,

As amatter of fact,

You'regetting used to life without him in your way

It's soeasy now, cos you got friends you can trust,

Friendswill be friends,

Whenyou're in need of love they give you care and attention,

Friendswill be friends,

Whenyou're through with life and all hope is lost,

Hold outyour hand cos friends will be friends (right till the end)

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Stand ByMe - Ben E King﹕原收錄於“StandBy Me”(1961/Atco) 單曲中。

(Ben E.King / Jerry Leiber / Mike Stoller)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vbg7YoXiKn0

When thenight has come

And theland is dark

And themoon is the only light we'll see

No Iwon't be afraid, no I won't be afraid

Just aslong as you stand, stand by me

Anddarlin', darlin', stand by me, oh now now stand by me

Stand byme, stand by me

If thesky that we look upon

Shouldtumble and fall

And themountains should crumble to the sea

I won'tcry, I won't cry, no I won't shed a tear

Just aslong as you stand, stand by me

Anddarlin', darlin', stand by me, oh stand by me

Stand byme, stand by me, stand by me-e, yeah

Wheneveryou're in trouble won't you stand by me, oh now now stand by me

Oh standby me, stand by me, stand by me

Darlin',darlin', stand by me-e, stand by me

Oh standby me, stand by me, stand by me

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That'sWhat Friends Are For - Dionne Warwick / Elton John / Gladyys Knight / StevieWonder﹕原收錄於“Friends”(1985/Arista) 專輯中﹔原唱為 Rod Stewart﹐收錄於“Night Shift”(1982/ Ladd/Warner) OST 中。

(Burt Bacharach/ Carole Bayer Sager)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtGF2m102Wg

And Inever thought I'd feel this way

And asfar as I'm concerned

I'm gladI got the chance to say

That Ido believe I love you

And if Ishould ever go away

Well,then close your eyes and try to feel

The waywe do today

And thenif you can remember

Keepsmilin', keep shinin'

Knowin'you can always count on me, for sure

That'swhat friends are for

For goodtimes and bad times

I'll beon your side forever more

That'swhat friends are for

Well,you came and opened me

And nowthere's so much more I see

And soby the way I thank you

Whoa,and then for the times when we're apart

Well,then close your eyes and know

Thesewords are comin' from my heart

And thenif you can remember, oh

Keepsmiling, keep shining

Knowingyou can always count on me, for sure

That'swhat friends are for

In goodtimes, in bad times

I'll beon your side forever more

Oh,that's what friends are for

Whoa...oh... oh... keep smilin', keep shinin'

Knowin'you can always count on me, for sure

That'swhat friends are for

For goodtimes and bad times

I'll beon your side forever more

That'swhat friends are for

Keepsmilin', keep shinin'

Knowin'you can always count on me, oh, for sure

'Cause Itell you that's what friends are for

For goodtimes and for bad times

I'll beon your side forever more

That'swhat friends are for (That's what friends are for)

On me,for sure

That'swhat friends are for

Keepsmilin', keep shinin'

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OldFriends - Simon & Garfunkel﹕原收錄於“Bookend”(1968/Columbia)專輯中。

(PaulSimon)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BPTOY8FrvNw

Oldfriends, old friends

Sat ontheir park bench like bookends

Anewspaper blown thru the grass

Falls onthe round toes, on the high shoes

Of theold friends

Oldfriends

Wintercompanions, the old men

Lost intheir overcoats, waiting for the sunset

Thesounds of the city sifting thru trees

Settlelike dust on the shoulders

Of theold friends

Can youimagine us years from today

Sharinga park bench quietly?

Howterribly strange to be 70

OldFriends

Memorybrushes the same years

Silentlysharing the same fear